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Its Good to have Family

Families are important. It seems like the older you get the more family is important. I have just experience family love and reconnecting with Sharon’s surgery at Cleveland Clinic. It had been 35 year since I was in Cleveland. I was busy working and dealing with life in general. I knew we had family there, but Sharon was more connected to family than I was. I am used to keeping to myself, a very quiet private person/ When the opportunity came and I was asked by my dad to go with Sharon to Cleveland for her surgery,; I did what all of us oldest children do, we step in and do what is needed. It was refreshing to see the love and support we received from aunts and all of the cousins on both sides of the family. The Aunts When you come from a big family like my mom did, it is not unusual if you are one of the older siblings to have sisters and brothers the same age as your own children. That is the case with me and Pam. I was born in January and she was born in September. Now she...

Bullying what it is and what it is not. Tales from a person who was bullied

Bullying What prompted me to write this was the death of a nine year old due to bullying. It breaks my heart to know that someone felt maybe they had to   try to cry for help and it took an ugly turn. There is a book by Sheryl Woods “ Catching Fireflies” , that tells the story of a teenaged girl who was a victim of bullying, because someone else’s boyfriend looked at her. In the book Misty Donavan was bullied. Fortunately, she had a teacher who suspected something was wrong and stepped in to help. I mention this, because of the way that the media has portrayed bullying. It is not, not being invited to someone’s birthday party, or being excluded from a group. Bullying makes you feel like you are not worth anything. It’s not just calling someone “four eyes: and other names. That is one form of it. The poem we were all taught in school “Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt”. Words to hurt, they have a lasting impact on a person. What makes a person...

Brother Carlos Lewis

A Tribute to Brother Carlos Lewis I received a text message today, that Brother Carlos Lewis had gotten his promotion. Tears came to my eyes as many, many memories of Brother Carlos came to mind. I last saw Brother Carlos, the last part of 2015. Heart of God ministries goes to Hilltop Nursing Home once a month to minister. I received a call to minister at the nursing home that night. Sometimes I don’t have a lot of notice, once when I was there I was the “ram in the bush”, because the person who was scheduled to come forgot or something came up at the last minute. I am sooo glad that I obeyed the Lord on that evening. I don’t even remember what I spoke on. As we were getting ready to leave Andrea came up to me, I hadn’t seen Andrea in quite some time, so I didn’t recognize her and she explained to everyone that me and her dad had worked together for over 30 years at WJLS. I saw Brother Carlos and hugged him and the tears fell.   I was so glad to see him. Sharon said she had ...